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[[Beeld:YoungCoupleEmbracing-20070508.jpg|260px|thumb|Die vorming van sterk [[Emosie|emosionele]] bande tussen seksmaats is belangriker vir sosiale interaksies en langtermynverhoudings as onmiddellike [[voortplanting]].]]
In mense is ovulusieovulasie relatief onsigbaar sodat ’n paartjie nie altyd weet of die vrou op enige gegewe oomblik vrugbaar is nie. ’n Moontlike rede hiervoor kan wees die vorming van sterk emosionele bande tussen seksmaats, wat belangriker vir sosiale interaksies en langtermynverhoudings is as onmiddellike voortplanting.<ref name="Freberg"/><ref name="Reis">{{Cite book|author= Harry T. Reis|author2= Susan Sprecher|author3= Susan K. Sprecher | title = Encyclopedia of Human Relationships |volume=1| year = 2009 | publisher = SAGE |pages=541–543 | isbn = 978-1412958462| url=https://books.google.com/books?id=3EkOwvSAtL4C&pg=PA541}}</ref>
 
Seksuele behoeftes wat nie bevredig word nie, word verbind met ’n hoër kans op [[egskeiding]] en die beëindiging van verhoudings, veral wat mans betref.<ref name="Munck">{{cite book| author = Victor C. De Munck|title =Romantic Love and Sexual Behavior: Perspectives from the Social Sciences|publisher = Greenwood Publishing Group | year = 1998 | pages = 148–149 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-0275957261| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=I78VnFoINgQC&pg=PA148}}</ref><ref name="Howe">{{cite book| author = Tasha R. Howe|title =Marriages and Families in the 21st Century: A Bioecological Approach|publisher = John Wiley & Sons | year = 2011 | page = 411 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-1405195010| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=UHaLL0pYwhMC&pg=PA411}}</ref><ref name="Fine">{{cite book|author1=Mark A Fine |author2=John H. Harvey |title =Handbook of Divorce and Relationship Dissolution|publisher = Psychology Press | year = 2013 | page = 160 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-1317824213| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=wGZlAgAAQBAJ&pg=PA160}}</ref> Sommige studies wys egter ’n gebrek aan gereelde seks is nie self ’n groot rede vir egskeiding nie, maar dit is dikwels een van verskeie redes wat daartoe kan lei.<ref name="Reinisch2">{{cite book| author = June M. Reinisch| author2 = Ruth Beasley | title = The Kinsey Institute New Report On Sex| publisher = Macmillan | year = 1991 | page = 74| accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-0312063863| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=KsW6wPiXEd0C&pg=PA74}}</ref><ref name="Schwartz2">{{cite book| author = Pepper Schwartz| author2 = Virginia Rutter|title =The Gender of Sexuality|publisher = Rowman & Littlefield | year = 1998 | page = 129 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-0803990425| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=7bWlvcpYGUcC&pg=PA129}}</ref> Volgens ’n studie in 2010 het die NSSHB bevind mans wie se laaste seksuele omgang met ’n lewensmaat was, het groter prikkeling, meer plesier en minder probleme soos erektiele disfunksie ervaar as mans wie se laaste seksdaad met iemand buite ’n verhouding was.<ref name="Yarber">{{cite book| author = William Yarber| author2 = Barbara Sayad| author3 = Bryan Strong|title =Human Sexuality: Diversity in Contemporary America|edition =Eighth|publisher = McGraw-Hill Higher Education | year = 2012 | page = 445 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-0077435257| url =https://books.google.com/?id=EWz7twAACAAJ&dq=Human+Sexuality:+Diversity+in+Contemporary+America}}</ref>
 
Vroue kla dikwels oor hulle manlike seksmaats se gebrek aan seksuele spontaniteit. ’n Afname in seksuele aktiwiteit onder hierdie vroue kan wees omdat hulle glo hulle is nie meer aantreklik nie of omdat hulle maats se gesondheidsprobleme seksuele omgang belemmer.<ref name="Montemurro">{{cite book| author = Beth Montemurro|title =Deserving Desire: Women's Stories of Sexual Evolution|publisher = Rutgers University Press | year = 2014 | page = 169 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-0813573069| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=1XVYBQAAQBAJ&pg=PT169}}</ref> Sommige vroue sê hulle grootste seksuele bevrediging kom uit seks met iemand met wie hulle ’n emosionaleemosionele band het, eerder as net danksy ’n orgasme.<ref name="Wincze"/><ref name="Gurian">{{cite book| author = Michael Gurian|title =The Wonder of Aging: A New Approach to Embracing Life After Fifty|publisher = Simon & Schuster | year = 2013 | page = 178 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn = 978-1476706719| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=XyS5ebuXJWgC&pg=PT178}}</ref> Wat egskeiding betref, is vroue meer geneig om hulle mans te verlaat weens ontrouheid as hulle in ’n huwelik met min samewerking of baie konfilk is.<ref name="Fine"/>
 
Navorsing wys ook paartjies wat nie getroud is nie, maar saamwoon, het meer seks as getroude paartjies en is meer geneig om seks buite die verhouding te hê; dit kan wees as gevolg van die "wittebrood-effek" (die nuwigheid om seks met ’n maat te hê), aangesien seks gewoonlik al hoe minder beoefen word hoe langer ’n paartjie getroud is. Getroude paartjies het seks gemiddeld een of twee keer per week, of sowat ses tot sewe keer per maand.<ref name="Strong2">{{cite book| author = Bryan Strong| author2 = Theodore Cohen|title =The Marriage and Family Experience: Intimate Relationships in a Changing Society|publisher = Cengage Learning | year = 2013 | page = 212 | accessdate = 9 Desember 2014 |isbn =978-1285531892| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=6ZIWAAAAQBAJ&pg=PT237}}</ref> Ouer mense het gewoonlik ook minder seks as jong mense.<ref name="Strong2"/>